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**Siapa Marthad?** **Marthad ibn Abi Marthad al-Ghanawi** ialah seorang sahabat Nabi ﷺ yang terlibat membantu membawa keluar tawanan Muslim dari Mekah ke Madinah — satu tugas yang berisiko tinggi. --- **Kisahnya** Sebelum Islam, beliau mempunyai hubungan dengan seorang wanita bernama **‘Anaq**, yang dikenali sebagai pelacur di Mekah. Selepas masuk Islam, Marthad berubah. Namun apabila bertemu semula, wanita itu masih mengajaknya kembali kepada hubungan lama. Marthad menolak, tapi dia tetap bertanya kepada Nabi ﷺ: **“Bolehkah aku menikahinya?”** Nabi ﷺ tidak terus menjawab… sehingga turun wahyu. --- 📖 **Surah An-Nur 24:3** > “Lelaki yang berzina tidak menikah kecuali dengan wanita yang berzina atau musyrik…” Ayat ini menjadi **teguran jelas** — bukan sekadar larangan zina, tetapi juga larangan membawa hubungan yang kotor masuk ke dalam perkahwinan tanpa perubahan. --- 📖 **Prinsip yang menguatkan — Surah Al-Baqarah 2:221** > “Janganlah kamu menikahi wanita musyrik sehingga mereka beriman…” --- **Pengajaran ringkas** * **Perasaan lama boleh muncul kembali**, tapi iman letakkan batas * **Tak semua yang kita pernah cinta sesuai untuk dinikahi** * **Kahwin bukan jalan “halalkan” sesuatu yang masih salah** * **Perubahan (taubat & iman) mesti datang dulu** --- **Penutup** Kisah ini bukan tentang cinta yang gagal, tapi tentang **iman yang menang atas perasaan**.

After consummating a marriage, does a woman’s future daughter from another husband remain mahram to her ex-husband? Short answer: **Yes — but with an important condition.** In Islamic law, once you marry a woman and **consummate the marriage**, her daughters (including from other marriages, whether before or after) become permanently mahram to you. This ruling comes from the Qur’an: > “…and your stepdaughters under your guardianship, born of your wives unto whom you have gone in…” > — Qur'an 4:23 ### How it works (simple breakdown) * If you **marry a woman AND consummate the marriage** → ✅ All her daughters become **mahram forever** (doesn’t matter if they were born before or after your marriage) * If you **marry but do NOT consummate** → ❌ Her daughters are **not mahram** (you could technically marry them after divorce) ### Your specific scenario > “any subsequent child she get from another marriage thereafter” ✔️ **Yes, still mahram** — Because the mahram relationship is tied to: * your consummated marriage with the mother, not * when the child was born. So even if: * you divorce her * she remarries someone else * then later has a daughter 👉 That daughter is still **your stepdaughter (rabibah)** and permanently **mahram** to you. --- ### Why? Scholars explain this falls under **حرمة المصاهرة (prohibition through marriage ties)** — once established through consummation, it becomes permanent, similar to blood relations in terms of marriage prohibition.